Alana

Alana, I have just recently came across your website, and after one day of reading your advice, I just want to say thank you. Thank you for being a wonderful human being that offers wisdom and heartfelt concern for us all. Already I have felt a difference in my life, because the questions I have been struggling with in my life, you willingly gave guidance that is truly a way to make my life wonderful. How blessed this world is to have someone like you. Thank you for sharing you gifts and concern for us, you are wonderful.

Dear Alana, I feel I need to be true to my heart and that is what I strive to do each and every day. I'm currently 29 years of age. Not ready for settling yet, marriage or kids, for I feel I have to much to do. I feel nearly all aspects of my life are challenging. Like my relationship with my boyfriend and his kids, the conflict with my mother, I'm currently in a job where I feel the life cycle of it has ended and I'm ready for something new. I feel stuck and I would love to move on. I want to be in greater alignment with my true self and true purpose on earth. I am ready but what steps do I take to achieve that? Thank-you so much for taking the time to read an answer my question, I greatly appreciate it.

Dear A, I am at a turning point in my life. I feel it.I have to understand the real cause of my lack of luck a long time ago. Am I under some kind of "cloud of bad luck," which seems to have pursued me in all the important areas of my existence? More than six years now my husband and I have had financial problems. The problems tend to get worse instead of better, more debt etc. Despite everything I tried to do, I’ve had to put up with more and more serious problems which have prevented me from leading a normal life. My emotional life and relationships are so unsatisfying, even though I try very hard to reach out to others. Is negative energy being directed at me day after day? How and why did I lose some kinds of lucky opportunities in the past? Probably I could have had a few successes, and experienced some positive events. Why didn't I perceive it? I was not able to discover the real cause of my present problems. Why have I never really been lucky in life until now? What the real solution to my problems is? I am very happy to find Your page. Thank you for your help.

Hello Alana, for a while now I've been thinking of creating a group called 'Friends Get it Done' consisting of four members living locally to each other and giving two hours a week each month to help each other with anything from housework, decorating, or gardening for instance. Yet I've been unable to make myself do things in my home or garden and have come to think that this experience could be to show me how difficult it can be to motivate oneself. I don't feel anything much about it even though I know I'd be happier in a clean and tidy home. I feel that it could also be self indulgent but have no way of being sure. It's often said that if your home looks clean and tidy on the outside but your cupboards and storage places are a mess that this is a physical expression of what's going on subconsciously. In my case it's the opposite my cupboards are clean organized and tidy and it's my home that's a mess. I'm really confused and can't work out what's going on with me. I understand that I may have needed to have the experience of not being able to take care of my home so that when I start my group it will give me better understanding and help me to teach members not to be judgmental or blaming. Many people suffer from depression but in my case I don't seem at all unhappy or guilty about not doing the housework. I used to be able to clean my home if I had visitors because I was ashamed, but now I just don't seem to be bothered. I'm confused and struggling with how to get back to cleaning without having to fight myself to do it. For many years now I've been able to teach others to connect with their guides and helpers but can't do this myself. I currently have a friend who can speak to her guides but chooses not to but won't say why her guide offered to help us both but now I'm without this connection because my friend refuses to help. I've been told in the past that I had all of the gifts and abilities in other lifetimes and abused them for personal gain so now I can teach others but can't have direct access myself. I'd appreciate your thoughts.