Departed Loved Ones

My question is around preparing loved ones for the passing of my mother. I am also being faced with a more difficult task and that is to respect her choice to be cremated.

My mother died and the family was with her. I saw her spirit leave her body. It come right up to me like it was trying to enter my body. Why did I see this and no one else saw it? (3 minutes, 03 seconds)

My father committed suicide when I was 23 months old. Does my father feel sorry for what he has done. Can he see me? Will I ever see him? (3 minutes, 44 seconds)

Dear Alana, my father passed a few years ago. He died from cancer, I was praying that it would be peacefully in his sleep but it didn't turn out that way. (3 minutes, 48 seconds)

Can my wife and I communicate? If we can communicate can it be done during her transformation period or would it be after this time and how would we communicate? (4 minutes, 28 seconds)

How is my friend on the otherside doing and does he have a message for me? (3 minutes, 43 seconds)

My son passed to the other side 22 months ago. I have been researching everything I can on the spirit world. Can you tell me anything to help my search for him? (3 minutes, 36 seconds)

My dear father passed away recently. I am finding it difficult to accept the reality of no more physical presence. (3 minutes, 49 seconds)

I miss my daughter so much. It has been 9 years since her death from SIDS and my heart still hurts and aches for her. Why did she have to go at only one month old? (3 minutes, 03 seconds)

January 2nd I lost my wife and soul mate. One thing we talked about was remarrying if one of us passed away. I think she may be somehow urging me in that direction buy my chart shows this would not be a good direction during the next seven years. (4 minutes, 17 seconds)

I have been learning about life after death and that our loved ones can send us signs. Is he still sending me signs that I haven't been picking up on? (3 minutes, 17 seconds)

My father past away on 23 February, 1996 in a road accident. I want to know where is he now? Do dead people have emotions? Do they feel the pain of leaving their loved ones behind? (3 minutes, 26 seconds)

Alana, my Mom passed away last December 22nd, 1997 and I would like to know how she is. (2 minutes, 57 seconds)

I would like you to speak about death and eternity. I have been told that this is my last experience as a human. But that I will have work to do, none-the-less, when I move on. Would you please comment, and possibly elaborate, on this? (4 minutes, 36 seconds)

 

 

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By Shannon B.
2009-07-27 20:32:49
 

Dear Alana, It has been a year since my husband committed suicide. I wish that he was still here and I could have stopped him but I was too late. I think about him every single day and wonder if he has found peace or if he is still suffering with all of the pain he dealt with for his entire life. Is there a way for me to communicate with him? I talk to him all the time, but I'm not sure if he's hearing me. Is he OK? Did he find his mother? For years he told me that he was terrified that his mother went to hell because she committed suicide. He said that fear was what was keeping him from committing the same act. Eventually his pain became too much to bear I guess. I guess I'm just looking for some closure that I'm afraid I'll never find.

 
By Cheyenne
2009-10-04 18:43:42
 

I have lost my husband and soul mate to suicide. Is he still with me? Can he see, me, talk to me and communicate? I'm lost, as I don't feel him with me right now. It's as if there is a wall between us, he's on the other side, and knows he can't come back. He's always said we were destined to be together forever.

 
By Cassidy H.
2009-11-07 20:14:41
 

I just lost my mother on 10/25/2009. This was a sudden death. As of now, I have not been informed of the cause. She died at the young age of 54, just days before her 55th birthday. She was very active, lean, healthy and exercised on a regular basis. My father was killed on 10/18/1976. My mother couldn't forget the sadness of losing my father. She never remarried. My mom basically had a drinking problem for the rest of her life. Do you think there is any connection in the dates of death being so close? I can't help but blame myself for being so busy in my life that I never had time for her. We lived in separate states and I had not seen her in 2 years. I just feel like I need closure. I want her to know that I love her and miss her very much. I want her to know that I wish I could have given her so much more. I wish I could have it to do all over again. I would have taken her in taken care of her. She was such a good person that had to struggle her whole life. Is there any way for me to let her know that? It's the sadness of regret that I can't overcome.

 
By Rebecca
2010-05-21 19:20:04
 

Dear Alana, I'm so happy I found a person like you. My father didn't love me that is what I feel. I had run away from home in my teens because of my boyfriend and returned home at age twenty because after marriage this man used to beat me. But I did not find peace at home. I am the first child of the family, and I think he was very disappointed in me. I was terrified of my dad, it was as if he didn't want me back and often told me I brought shame to the family. It was unbearable and I left home again to stay with an aunt. Sooner or later I found someone who wanted to marry me, and we left my home country to his. Much to the disappointment of my father, my mother told me this later. I gave birth to a boy, this was eighteen and half years ago. My father died a week after I gave birth to my son. Now, I am back home, having lost my husband to a second woman. And I am wondering what my daddy has to say. Has he forgiven me for the mistake I made in my teens. Is he angry I came back home. Does he love me as his first child or is he still upset. I have brought my son back along with me only for studies he will finally go back to stay with his father. His father finances him for everything. I am so hurt and confused. Please can you advise me.

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