Soul Mates

I am in love with and a man and he says he is in love with me. We have been on again and off again but we always somehow end up back together even though there is a third person involved. We aren't being intimate, so I know that's not the reason he still can't let me go nor can I let him go. Yet we still stay in love. Can you tell me if he is my soul mate, or why we are together like this? I really need to know. Thank you for any help you can give.

Hello, about a month ago, I met a guy who I was instantly attracted to. It was as if a force was pulling me to him. He is the most amazing guy I have ever met, kind, compassionate, gentle, out going, and courageous. Words cannot even describe how much I adore him. The feeling is very deep for me. When I saw him I knew he was someone special, something struck me deep in the pit of my stomach telling me to acknowledge it. I think he is my soul mate or twin soul. He lives about four hours away from me, and he will be traveling very much this year. I have already told him how I felt. He told me that our paths may cross in the future. I have to see him again. I have never been this love sick before. I have lost weight, sleep and now unfortunately my hair is starting to fall out. The separation is starting to physically take a toll on me. I don't know if he feels the same way. What does all this mean? How come my intuition and heart is telling me not to let this guy get away, when I feel I have made all the effort to bring us together? It hurts very much, I cry all the time. He is so amazing, he makes me want to be a better person and the person I want to be. My heart aches for him and there isn't a second where he is not on my mind. Please lend your insight to a friend. Thank you for listening.

I am single, and I have met a man, a former office mate. Already married with kids. I was never attracted to him at first, but later on, I started to notice him as we get to know each other, we get along together and found out that we have so many things in common. We have the same interests, though we often argue to some topics but still we enjoy being together. He teases me, but of course, I know that there is nothing special to that. The problem is, I had realized that I am already attracted to him, and I really felt something for him. I felt so concerned about him. I always wanted to see him, and I feel so happy and complete every time that we're together. At times, I wanted to think that we're having a mutual understanding, as if his jokes were true, because I myself feel something for him, though I never did admit it. Now, that we're no longer seeing each other, I still feel so connected to him. I still long to see him, to talk to him, and somehow I do really feel that he feels the same thing. Before, he used to tell me and my friends that I am his soul mate, but I don't really understand what it means. So now, I want to ask, is it possible that we are soul mates even if he's already married to another? What are the signs that we are?

I am currently married and would like to know if he is my soul mate. I at one time thought he was but we have been through so much and a lot of hurtful things. There is a past individual that I always think about and can not shake from about 15 years ago. Any suggestions?

I have such an enormous love and respect for a man I am no longer physically with. He lives in another state. I have tried to communicate with him through email and phone but he rarely responds. I feel a deep connection and a sense of clarity that he truly loved me but I could not see it at the time we were together. He actually took the time to understand me, my true nature and brought it out of me and also showed me the things i needed to work on indirectly. He refuses to give me closure and reality I would say he is ignoring me because he is over me but my heart tells me different and I sense he still loves me. Could I get some insight from you regarding this. Thank you kindly.

I am in love with a married man. He said he felt in love with me the minute he saw me. We are no longer seeing each other in that level but we work together. He tells me he thinks about me all the time, I do too. I love him so much it hurts. Is he my soul mate? How can I learn to love myself and let go of this love? I don't want to hurt his wife or kids.