Finding Purpose Through Community

Question: Alana, I am wanting your spiritual insight on how I am doing with personal self development.

Do you have any recommendations or suggestions for me on what I might do to better prepare myself for helping other people.

I feel an urge to make a difference and feel that helping is part of my life path. I sure could use some personal coaching on how to find more ways to be effective.

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Answer: Hello, dear one! Thank you for your question.

When Alana felt your question, I felt a very dear being. I want to acknowledge the delight that Alana feels within you.

Alana feels though, that you have not really awaken to who you fully are, or recognized the capabilities that lie within you. I feel your kindness and your awareness about being a good person. But, I do not feel that you have yet found ways to fully build your confidence and extend yourself in the world.

So, I suggest that you begin to challenge yourself a little more. Begin to challenge yourself by asking yourself what you have wanted to do but have never done

Then begin to explore things that are exciting to you. Take a little bit more of a risk.

Perhaps, you could find a group with whom you could volunteer and do some work that allows you to develop some more of your skills. Also, perhaps take a class in public speaking and learn how to project your voice, move out of your body, so you can begin to be more authentically who you are.

It feels like, when you were growing up, that your parents were very busy or they didn't know how to give you enough recognition. Therefore, it left an impression in you of feeling sensitive, which maybe lead to you not quite get a full glimpse of who you fully are. So, do, dear one, join some groups where you get to contribute of your talent.

Also find some hobbies or some interests where you can cultivate your skills and where other beings will begin to see who you really are. This will help you validate yourself.

By taking actions in these areas you will find that your energy builds, and you begin to recognize that you have more power within than you may have realized.

As you are connected deeper to the essence of who you are, your spirituality will blossom as well. As this occurs, your light will shine brighter. As your light shines brighter, then people in the world will begin to notice you in greater ways.

You will attract more love. Love will come into your life. It feels like you are waiting for your nature to show up fully before you bring someone into your life, because you want them to match the vibration of who you are becoming.

Thank you, dear one, for your question. Alana appreciates it very much.

--Alana

 

 

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By Anny
2010-03-23 20:16:32
 

Very good advice, I feel as though you were talking to me. Keep up your wonderful wisdom and you abundant love. Light and love, Anny.

 
By Erica
2010-03-23 20:21:56
 

Alana, I read your responses and replies, its really touched my heart, thanks. In fact, for myself I do have something that troubles me. Two years ago, I gave up my hard built career to leave a guy. I was with him for four years. I cannot stand his dishonorable behavior. One day I decided to cease the relationship. I stopped answering his calls, and stopped reading his emails. The only place he could reach me was at work. He disturbed me at my work. In order to stop this, I decided to quit the job. This was a very hard and tough decision, as I love my job very much. Two years later, I still am unable to pull myself out of missing him, and loving him. I could not understand how a guy who keeps saying I loves you, could also be the one hurting me the most.

 
By Meera
2010-03-23 20:22:26
 

Thank you so much for this article. I have taken a step to work towards the purpose of my life. This article has given me strength and courage. Thank you.

 
By Linda O.
2010-03-25 19:07:26
 

I, too, need more confidence in myself. I have knowledge in nutrition and a certificate, however the words do not come easily to me. I need to join a women's group in my area to learn projection and speaking in front of others. I am signed up to take more classes to channel my knowledge into a more specific area of nutrition, dealing with people with pain and inflammation. In this area I have personal experience and want to help others with the same afflictions. Thank you for your insight, this will be very helpful for future reference.

 
By Jayanthi
2010-03-25 19:09:57
 

Dear Alana, thank you for being there for people who need your support and guidance. My question is, "Is everything in our lives happening as per the Divine Plan? Do we have anything called 'choice' at all? Even 'accidents' seem to be well-planned. I'm curious to know your perspective. How do the events happening on Earth look from your dimension?

 
By Maria
2010-03-25 19:11:05
 

Dear Alana, I was raped when I was fifteen, I am now 26. I have never had a long term relationship or enjoyed my sexual encounters. I have quite fulfilling life in other ways but occasionally have to shut off from the world due to painful feelings. I feel like my mind shuts me off from itself, and I feel quite disconnected. Is there anything I can do to heal and get past this and connect both with myself and others again?

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