Question: Alana, I am wanting your spiritual insight on how I am doing with personal self development. Do you have any recommendations or suggestions for me on what I might do to better prepare myself for helping other people. I feel an urge to make a difference and feel that helping is part of my […]
Commitment and Choosing to Stay Single
A Note from Sandy and Kirk: Two people submitted questions that were quite similar. They both addressed the subject of marriage, and a desire to remain single. One was from a woman who is forty-eight and loves being single. She is content to not marry or have children, but she feels she is judged by […]
Emotionally Unavailable: Let’s Just Be Friends
Question: He said that we are just friends (we were together for twelve years). He always blames me when anything goes wrong between us, even if it is him, which it usually is. (And he knows that!) So I guess I need to end it completely and for good, because I want a commitment and […]
Identifying Personal Values Builds Self Esteem
Question: My boyfriend and I have been having a lot of problems and I could use some relationship advice. He has physically abused me twice in one month. He currently lives with me and I have asked him to leave. When he doesn’t drink he is more tolerable to live with. I want to know […]
Hot and Cold Relationships
Question: I have a male friend who seems to care about me. He runs hot and cold, saying he wants friendship, but acts like he wants more. He is aware that I care about him and it seems that just when he starts to let down his guard, he pulls back. I feel like I […]
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