Everything within us is spinning energy and how we occupy our thoughts points to how our energy spins.
Question: Hi Alana! Months ago you suggested that I simplify my life and follow what brings me joy.
As I go through this process I seem to be breaking up many of my relationships and distancing myself from others. I am finding less need to hold on to old ways.
I have tried to sever ties with two men who both plead with me to remain friends. But they are both married and I am torn between keeping a so-called friendship and telling them both NO and running away.
One seems to be a soul mate. The other man thinks I saved his life. Is it at all possible to maintain any relationship with either of them and still find the love I seek in a fully loving relationship? I wonder if the first one is what has held me back from authenticity in my life.
As I seek work that fills my heart, I wonder if these relationships are some kind of indicator where I am with work as well. There is no evidence yet of joyous work either, and I keep going back to the same old questions.
Are my relationship and work choices all intertwined somehow? Thanks Alana! You are wonderful.
The Effects of Compromising
Answer: Hello dear one! Well yes, everything is intertwined, you know, because we are a wonderful spinning vibration.
Everything within us is spinning energy and how we occupy our thoughts points to how our energy spins.
If you find that your thoughts are occupied with the past or they are taking up much time by spinning with other people’s attachments you are going to receive more of whatever you dwell upon. So, if you are thinking about someone that is not fully present, you are going to attract more situations in your life where you continue to lack another’s presence. You see?
I feel, dear one, the more you concentrate your energy, by thinking of what you can do through creative action each day while bringing things that feel good into your life, and holding the image of the type of person you would like in your life without distraction, the more you are going to reap.
Yes, I do feel that there is a connection with these relationships of which you speak. But, I also feel that you are transforming what you know you can create and bring forward, and you’re also recognizing that you deserve to have splendid love. You deserve to have the attention that loving relationships can give.
I mean, as you bring more balanced qualities into your life you’ll be able to give more love to another. So, a relationship and work can be a fair exchange as your future unfolds.
I feel that deep within, you are beginning to listen to what your higher nature knows, and what your grander self senses and feels. I feel that you are bringing many resources within you.
Keep observing your resistance and note where it comes up. Notice where you resist giving yourself something that you know inside would bring you what you deserve.
Watch where you resist giving to yourself the things that you know could bring you more delight in a whole way, not a partial way, but a whole way. The more you open and allow, the more that you will become a vessel, and then more quality situations can enter your life and begin to spin with you.
You are doing quite well dear one, since the first time that we communicated and where I see you today. I feel that your life is unfolding quite nicely. Just keep up the good work. Keep up the vision. Keep up the faith and do not compromise your joy.
Thank you, dear one.
–Alana
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