Finding Love

…love is a reservoir that lies within each and every being.

Question: How do we find love in life?

Answer: Hello, dear one! Thank you for this question. Alana would like to begin answering your question by referencing the nature of one’s self.

Finding love in life is a direct relationship of one’s ability to find it within one’s self.

When we look in the outer world and feel a sense of joy and love within, it is because the things that we identify in our outer world actually are mirrors that can reflect the love and joy that lies within our own heart.

Often people are confused by what really is happening. When they share affection with someone new, or when they’re involved in something that makes them feel really good, they get confused and tend to give the responsibility for what they are feeling to the object of their affection.

Once they transfer these wonderful feelings from within to their outer world when the affection is no longer present they feel a void. They feel that the love they identified was lost or displaced. So, it is very important to remember that love is a reservoir that lies within each and every being.

The Outer World as a Mirror

I’ll now define in a little more detail what Alana means when referencing a mirror to help you understand this description.

Imagine looking in a mirror and instead of seeing your physical reflection you see an interpretation that your conscious mind makes of what you experience. So the reflection in this mirror points back to an internal value or quality.

By exploring your inner nature through self-awareness, you begin the process of learning how to experience love’s energy in one’s life. You can learn to tap into the reservoir of love within, the energy of the universe, God, All-That-Is.

When a person becomes aware of their projections and begins to move into that quiet space where they can feel the expansion of their heart then take steps to experience the love of their inner self, they begin to unravel this mysterious ball of energy that defines their individualistic expression.

As we learn how to embrace our authentic being, the outer world begins to mirror a fuller essence of our being, the seed of love within us. Then the mirrors that we continually see without (externally), remind us of the many loves that lies within our nature.

Finding Your Internal Well of Love

Finding love in life begins first with recognizing how to travel into the well that lies within your heart. Then the outer manifestations show up and mirror the inner love and it becomes a more constant experience in your life.

When an individual feels lonely, or like they are without this wonderful feeling, or that their life is not bringing them the soul mate they are looking for, this is a reminder to first look within. Lastly experiencing love starts by identifying a spark of love that lies within and intently doing so. Eventually, the inner light will shine brightly and experiences in the outer world are able to begin mirroring love, rather than mirroring back a fixation on lack.

So, dear one, finding love within is the door that will open and gives one the ability to find love in the outer world’s experiences. It is what promotes the ability for attracting deeper and deeper levels of love within one’s life.

Recognize that all the interpretations of the experiences of life are really mirrors of our natures. The individuals that you encounter who make you feel the best of life, are really mirroring aspects of which you give the most value. Give yourself credit for the feelings that you have. Know that because those feelings come from you, you can create them again, and again, and again.

Focus on the love within, and it will show itself to you without.

Thank you, dear one, for your beautiful question.

–Alana