…are you ready to open and allow the universe to bring you more abundance, more possibilities, and more treasures?
Question: As a single woman in her thirties, I am struggling to run my flat (“apartment” to Americans).
The bills, the mortgage, etc. actually outweigh my income. Previously I have acted like an ostrich, burying my head in the sand to the reality.
Now I realize that I must sell up or give away some of my possessions. I feel–because I lived in the flat with my ex-partner who left two years ago and married another girl very quickly afterward–that I am not moving on emotionally. The flat has so many happy and unhappy memories centered around it.
I feel I need to start over, yet my friends say I am being foolish considering it. They say I am set up (with all my household possessions, etc) and that starting over would cost so much money. But I feel that it would be a price worth paying. I don’t earn a good salary, but just to get away, I feel it would give me a broader perspective. I could use some personal coaching on decision making.
Would you help me to decide whether to stay or sell up and a begin a fresh start?
Answer: Hello dear one! Thank you for bringing forth your question. Alana feels that you are at a crossroads and that you have many possibilities ahead. You are at a time where you can make new choices.
A Sensory Exploration
Alana senses this may be a useful time to examine all the available possibilities. Start by exploring which direction would excite you the most. Discern which of these options would bring the most vitality, energy, and anticipation for a future feels expansive. You might receive some keys or clues by first exploring your senses of what direction may be the most fulfilling.
You could ponder the possibility of staying where you are and perhaps increase your belief in abundance. By doing this, you may increase your ability to attract a roommate (if that is something in which you’re interested) and maybe even create a raise in your salary. If you made a choice to stay, you could perhaps redecorate or clear the energy so that it feels fresh and new. Sometimes painting and redecorating can do wonders and can create a whole new vibration.
However, Alana senses that you are seeking more simplicity in your life. Perhaps, if you chose a direction that will help you simplify then other new directions may reveal themselves. You see, when we allow something to leave or when we let go of something an energetic void is created. Letting go creates space for something else to arise. Next, this space percolates with energy until it is filled through conscious or unconscious intention.
Therefore, a space for new possibilities can enter your life if you make the choice to let go. Alana senses this is where your nature is leaning at this moment. If you were to sell up as you say, possibilities for taking the monetary gain combined with any new resources you attain could help redirect your life in many new ways.
Also, ask notice if you are living in an area where you feel great delight. Sometimes people outgrow the vibration of where they currently live. They are wanting or desiring, or moving toward creating new experiences in life. When you make a change in your environment, you invite new energy into your life that is also blended with the elements present in where you go.
A long-distance move, and sometimes just a short move, can create this type of shift. So, ask yourself again, “What would bring me the greatest delight?” And, “What would hold the most promise of opportunity and begin to provide a new direction that feels exciting?”
Also, examine your views of abundance. Begin to notice your thoughts and beliefs on this topic so you have a greater understanding if an action would be based on moving toward a desire, or are they based on a fear which may stem from beliefs in scarcity.
If you are basing your reasoning and intuitive understanding of a belief that all you can do is just get by or if you truly believe you are able to behold and embrace greater possibilities. In other words, are you ready to open and allow the universe to bring you more abundance, more possibilities, and more treasures?
If so, begin to turn towards thoughts that evoke these possibilities and actions will present themselves. Begin to see abundance around you. Begin to embrace these images as possibilities where you can make new choices enter your life.
Thank you dear one for your delightful question. Alana hopes that this gives you some guidance and possibly some encouragement to follow your dreams.